Feel Like You Shouldn’t Have To Spend Money On Your Marriage?
If you’re feeling hesitant to even look at the program because you’re convinced that your partner won’t want to do it, worried about opening a can of worms or you’re nervous to talk to them, I need you to take a deep breath and lean in here for a minute.
Ignoring the problems in your marriage does not make them go away or prevent you from being affected by them.
So, I want to give you a few tips to get your partner excited to take Modern Marriage with you.
Do this instead:Tell your partner you want to have an important conversation with them, and ask them when would be a good time. Sit down at the table or on the couch and make eye contact. Really own that you want this with your presence, and share how important this is to you. You could say simply “I love you so much, and I want to have a really amazing marriage. I’ve noticed that BOTH of us (own your role) have created some dynamics that aren’t healthy and I’d love to take this course to guide us through it.” Then just listen to their response and STAY CALM. It’s normal to have resistance. Just ask them to continue hearing you out and answer all their questions.
It’s OK, you can do this, I’m here for you.
Just admitting that we had a problem started me on the most transformative path of my life. And I would love to walk it with you every step of the way.
It wasn’t easy to admit and I took a couple of big conversations for Jonathan to really understand how serious I was about us making some really big changes inside of our marriage, but it was worth the discomfort. I hope you’ll lean in, and do the same for yourself and your partner.
When you’re both all in to take Modern Marriage, you can sign up HERE.
See you there!
Simple actions to take your life back, know your worth & feel alive no matter how drained, overwhelmed and far gone you feel.