I had everything a woman is “supposed to want”…

Handsome Doctor Husband, cute curly-haired kids, and me with a flashy Instagram feed and successful business.

But on the inside I was depressed, overwhelmed, and deeply unhappy.

I spent years blindly following the rules of success without ever considering if I was happy…

I sidelined my mental health and emotional needs to support the dreams of my husband…
I prioritized making money over being on purpose…
I almost gave up on all my dreams when my kids were born…

I did what I was “supposed” to do, without complaining because I believed that wanting more was selfish, and I should just stop complaining and be happy with what I have. Until I realized an important truth:

Women are here to do more than support other people.

You were born to be the star of your own life, not the stage crew for everyone else.

But the world we live in…

thrives off of you not knowing this truth and we are brainwashed to believe that…

Wanting more means you’re ungrateful
Your worth is based on how much you do (for others, around the house, at work)
Asking for help means you’re weak
Doing something just for you is selfish

Because then people can ask us to do whatever they want and we’ll smile and nod and take it like a woman because creating any sort of conflict sends us into a freeze state. But when women don’t have the space or energy to contribute ideas, art, change, innovation, leadership to the world, the world suffers.

“I finally said “enough!”

I started doing whatever *I* wanted.

I parented how I wanted, went where I wanted to go, got the help I wanted, owned my magic, wore what I wanted to wear, created the business that was fun and inspiring to run, made the money I wanted to make, and took care of my body the way I wanted. I stopped focusing on surviving and started focusing on Thriving.

And I created online coaching programs and communities to support women in forgetting who the world wants them to be, remembering who they are meant to be and giving them permission to act on it.

And we are actually changing the way women see themselves and what they deserve in this life.

Our community is now 100,000 strong and the world is starting to take notice

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We are at a critical moment in history. You are here to play an important role in the evolution of our planet. You remembering who you are, why you were born now and being courageous enough to fulfill your destiny will leave a lasting legacy that we desperately need. I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t matter, and I know exactly how to help you remember the unique role you came here to play.

Here’s where we can start…

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Kelly Taveras

Managing Partner

Kelly is the proud managing partner of Holy Woman and the way she ended up in this job was all magic. She focuses mostly on sacred marketing and inviting new Holy Women into the work and into their fullest expression. She runs the daily operations of the company and works alongside our incredible team.

Emma Manchester

Program Manager

Emma is our Holy Woman Witch, Program Mama, and magical bestie. She began training in the 13 moon mystery school with Elayne Kalila Doughty in 2023 and now works in collaboration with Sarah and Kelly to weave Sacred Feminine energy, guidance and support into the Holy Woman Program.

Miranda Merten

Operations Manager

Miranda is a Small Business Manager, Efficiency Strategist and an Informational Content Creator, who loves helping other female entrepreneurs leverage technology to overcome overwhelm in life and business. Miranda lives in Atlanta, Georgia with her wonderful daughter and Labradoodle.

Ashlee Springer

Social Media Marketing Manager

Ashlee works alongside Kelly and Sarah to execute all things social to support all of the programs and retreats – from reels, stories, carousels, ads, and more. If you’ve ever left a kind comment or DM – Ashlee was probably the one on the other side answering! Ashlee joined SJI in the fall of 2023 with over 7 years of social media and design expertise.

Jessica Blake

Customer Support Inbox

Jessica manages the inbox for Team Holy Woman and offers administrative support to Kharizma and Monique (and anyone else who needs it). When you have a billing or account-related question, or reply to a newsletter, she’s usually the one answering your emails and wishing you a magical day. Her favorite part of the work is connecting to members, supporting them in getting what they need, and witnessing them wherever they are on their journey.

Khadija Abdur-Raman

Holy Woman Facilitator

Khadija is one of our Holy Woman Community Facilitators. Khadija has been a member of Holy Woman since its inception and she is also an alum of Sarah's program Live More Weigh Less. Khadija lives in Maryland with her husband and 2 kids. When she's not running after her toddler or caring for her new baby, and connecting with her Holy Woman sisters, Khadija also runs her own Mindset coaching business.

Kharizma McAnulty

Program Assistant

Having been a member of Holy Woman since its inception, Kharizma joined the team in November 2023. She brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to her role working to dream up new ways to engage and offer more support to the members of Holy Woman. You will see her chiming in and being a part of most of the conversations on Facebook and chatting it up on Zoom calls to support and lift up our community.

Jeriann Rowena

Assistant Priestess

Jeriann Rowena is a leadership mentor and transformational space holder. She is trained as a scientist, innovator, facilitator, and sacred space holder. She bridges her Christian faith with the awakened feminine. Her deep passion is creating spaces where new possibilities can be manifest. She has published scientific research, holds patents, and has created award-winning mentoring programs for women and people of color focused on empowerment and inclusion from within.

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